Man Receives Life Sentence for Murdering Former Partner in Front of Their Baby
A man has been sentenced to life imprisonment after pleading guilty to murdering his former partner in a horrific domestic violence incident that unfolded in front of their infant child. Reo Te Whetu Marama Marsh, aged 39, admitted earlier this month to murdering 25-year-old Mary Benedito by strangling and severely beating her at a Southport hotel on November 27, 2021.
Court Proceedings and Sentencing Details
Marsh had been scheduled to stand trial this week, but with his guilty plea already entered, the court proceeded directly to sentencing, imposing a mandatory life sentence. The judge condemned the attack as "cowardly and unjustified", highlighting the brutality of the crime.
Background of the Tragic Incident
The couple had separated but were holidaying together on the Gold Coast before Benedito was due to fly to New Zealand with their 11-month-old baby. According to court testimony, Marsh had been drinking before flying into a jealous rage during an argument about Benedito seeing other men. He severely beat her and then strangled her, just metres from their infant child.
Benedito was rushed to hospital with life-threatening injuries and succumbed to those injuries two days later. The court heard that Marsh waited 45 minutes before seeking help, after which he took the couple's baby and drove away, triggering an amber alert. He was later found by the dog squad hiding inside a storage facility at Oxley, with the baby located safe and well.
Family's Heartbreaking Statements and Calls for Change
Outside the court, Benedito's loved ones spoke emotionally about the devastating toll of her death and the aftermath. Her cousin, Josiah Benedito-Taotafa, described "four years of us waiting, listening and in fight or flight", noting the family's grief, mental health struggles, and trauma.
He issued a powerful challenge to men across Australia, urging them to confront their behaviour and seek help. "I challenge Australia, I challenge the men of Australia to deal with your trauma," he said. "Men, if that's not a cry for help, get your help. Fix yourself so you don't have to hurt anyone else."
He emphasized that "women are still dying" due to men who haven't addressed their issues, calling for community action and personal responsibility. "All we want is peace and our continued healing. Justice has been served today. But the fight is not over. Take care of your community. Take care of your family. And do better."
Legal Implications and Support Resources
Under Queensland law, Marsh must serve a mandatory life sentence for murder. Due to his early guilty plea, he can apply for parole sooner, but must serve at least 16 years before being considered for release.
The family has called on the community and government to continue fighting for the safety of women and children, reflecting on years of grief and resilience while advocating for justice and healing.
If you or someone you know is impacted by sexual assault, domestic or family violence, call 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732 or visit 1800RESPECT.org.au. In an emergency, call triple-0. Advice and counselling for men concerned about their use of family violence: Men's Referral Service, 1300 766 491.
