Bhutanese Community in Canberra Unites in Prayer After Tragic Loss of Young Boy
In a heartfelt display of solidarity, the Bhutanese community in Canberra has gathered at a small Buddhist temple in Dickson to join the grieving family of four-year-old Osal Mayur Pokhrel in prayer. The young boy tragically lost his life while walking with his parents at the Mawson shops on Sunday, prompting an outpouring of support from local residents.
Traditional Buddhist Rituals for Peace and Healing
Buddhist monks, adorned in traditional burgundy and saffron robes, led a solemn prayer meet dedicated to Osal. The ceremony featured the resonant sounds of Buddhist drums, cymbals, and traditional trumpets, creating a sacred atmosphere within the temple. A total of 108 butter lamps were lit, symbolising light and guidance for the boy's spirit.
Vibrant offerings of sweets and fruit were placed before deities on a colourful pedestal, where a smiling photo of Osal, seated on a toy bee, served as a poignant reminder of his joyful spirit. Community members, alongside Osal's parents and relatives, participated in the moenlam and mithrub rituals, bowing their heads in collective prayer.
Family's Hopes for Spiritual Peace and Strength
Osal's father, Prakash, expressed the purpose of the prayers, stating, "It is for him to attain Nirvana ... so his spirit doesn't remain wandering. They are prayers for his peace and then to give us strength to do more prayer for him in the afterlife as well." He revealed that over the next 49 days, 1000 butter lamps will be lit to ensure a peaceful journey for his son.
Despite the temple's limited space, Prakash noted the continuous flow of visitors, saying, "The space is small, but everyone was coming, leaving their prayers, lighting butter lamps, sitting there for a while and then going." The family plans to hold Osal's funeral in Hall on Thursday, adapting traditional Bhutanese customs to local practices by using a coffin.
Community Support Extends Beyond Borders
In response to the tragedy, the Australia-Bhutan Association in Canberra (ABAC) launched an online fundraiser, which has already raised more than $46,000 to assist the family. An additional $40,000 has been contributed directly to the ABAC bank account by community members, marked with the reference "Prayer for our son."
Dorji Tashi, vice president of the association, highlighted the widespread support, noting that while Bhutanese people traditionally unite during times of hardship, this fundraiser has reached an international audience. "I would thank all kind and generous humans, especially Bhutanese people who are always willing to give more than what they have for the welfare of community," Mr Tashi said.
Blending Traditions in a New Homeland
Prakash reflected on the cultural adjustments required, explaining that Buddhist spiritual leaders and Hindu priests will preside over the funeral to offer prayers and best wishes. "It would have been a different scenario if the [funeral] was back in our country ... we have to blend with the culture here as well," he remarked, underscoring the challenges faced by migrant communities in maintaining traditions while adapting to new environments.
This gathering not only honours Osal's memory but also showcases the resilience and compassion of the Bhutanese community in Canberra, as they navigate grief through shared faith and collective action.
