Podcast host and model Steph Claire Smith has made an X-rated confession about her sex life, revealing she’s far less likely to perform oral sex on her husband Josh Miller now compared to when they first started dating. The mother of two shared the revelation on the KICPod podcast alongside co-host Laura Henshaw, framing the conversation around the expectations and boundaries couples set early in relationships.
Setting Unrealistic Expectations
Smith admitted that she may have set herself up for disappointment by being overly enthusiastic about oral sex at the start of their relationship. “I honestly think that that’s why Josh has such a problem with my lack of b...jobs that I give him, because when we first started dating, I was all for a b...job and, like, very descriptive with how they were going to turn out,” she said.
When Henshaw teased, “Did you tell him you loved them?” Smith responded, “I mean, by the way I explained it to him, you’d think that I really did.” She added, “I set myself up for . . . honestly, the s... that comes up now, like, when he really wants it, I’m like, ‘I did this to myself.’ It’s also fair, because I really don’t do it much.”
Relatable Discomfort
Henshaw chimed in with her own perspective, saying, “It’s uncomfortable! I get a saw jaw, okay. It’s really uncomfortable.” The pair shared a risqué clip on social media, warning their mothers to “scroll on” to avoid embarrassment.
In the comments, Smith joked about a potential solution: “May enjoy it more if I was any good at it 😂 . . . also may be better at it if I did it more 🤷🏼♀️.”
Fan Reactions
The conversation resonated with many female followers. One fan commented, “Tbh hard agree,” while another said, “This is a common tale.” A third added, “Oh this! I couldn’t agree with you more Steph!”
Smith married Miller in 2019, and the couple has two children: Harvey, 5, and Billie, 1.
