Reaching the age of 100 is a rare and celebrated milestone, but achieving it alongside your spouse of seven decades is a testament to a truly extraordinary life and love. This weekend, a Sydney couple born a world apart proved that enduring partnership is the greatest gift of all.
A Century of Love and Partnership
Shirley and Leo Wesolowski, both now 100 years old, celebrated their joint centenary birthdays on Saturday, surrounded by family who travelled from across the globe. The couple, who have been married for an incredible 72 years, exchanged vows in 1952 when they were both 26. They built their life together in Sydney's inner west, settling in Leichhardt where they raised four children and later welcomed grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
Their daughter, Jeanette Wadkin, shared insights into their enduring bond. "He fell in love and then, you know, he was always kind and gentle," Shirley said of Leo. Their story began when Leo, a displaced person after World War II, arrived in Australia and met Shirley in Ralston. "Even though they didn't speak English, it was the language of love, I guess," Wadkin reflected on their initial connection.
Family Gathers for the 'Party of the Century'
The landmark birthday was a major family event, with multiple generations flying in to attend the celebration. Granddaughter Melissa Wadkin declared, "I couldn't miss this. This is the party of the century." The couple, who now reside at the Uniting Aldersgate Residential Aged Care Home in Lilyfield, continue to display affection that has inspired their family for decades. "They still hold hands and kiss," their daughter added warmly.
The Simple Secret to a Long and Happy Life Together
When asked for the secret to their long and happy marriage, Shirley offered timeless, straightforward advice: "Just love each other and don't abuse each other. Just look after each other." This philosophy of mutual care and respect has clearly been the cornerstone of their life together. Jeanette Wadkin believes her parents' example has shaped the entire family, noting, "They emanate kindness, warmth and happiness, and that's something that I think we've tried to keep within our family."
In an age of constant change, the story of Shirley and Leo Wesolowski stands as a powerful reminder of the enduring strength of commitment, kindness, and simple love. Their journey from post-war migrants to beloved centenarians, celebrating a century of life side-by-side, marks perhaps the ultimate milestone: finding the person you still want to sit next to after 100 years.
